We always wanted a kick to start something new, there's a lot of people to motivate you on the internet. They are not successful yet, it's only with our money they could be successful.

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I've watched a lot of motivational guru's talking shit on youtube, and I'm tired of that. Now giving advice to people became a profession for a lot. If you go through youtube with a search of motivations, there will be unlimited videos with million views.

There are some good videos of the legends from every field. Everyone's just eager to know what they are talking about and waiting for a magic spell to slip off their tongue.

I've been there, hours a day listening to this real legend and the fake one's. I can't completely say it's bad to listen to those stories. But when you are listening to them, I mean the real guys, don't expect for a shortcut trick, instead, try to understand how they think and look into problems and solve it.

Don't dwell on the words like purpose, passion and success. Nowadays these words become the number one marketing strategy for a lot of marketing companies. It's okay if you don't know what to do in life, I don't even know what the heck is I'm doing here.

The fact is that very few people really know what they are doing, most of them are faking that they knew their purpose.

There is a dialogue from the series Game of Thrones by Samwell Tarly;

"I'm tired of reading about the achievements of better men."

Me too, now it's time to write our own story other than messing with those. Don't expect me to say something inspiring. I'm not even inspired. I just write this idea and facts coming to my mind. But I knew a few facts that I learnt eventually trying to do something new and failing. It's about the failures.

I don't think just a book or a movie or a motivation class could simply change you. Unless there is some real desire inside you for a change.

Sometimes not much change is needed, you may just have to live your life like the way you have been living. In everyone's life there will be up and downs. So when a small depression comes, going all the way down not gonna change anything.

What I have been found in these recent times is that thinking is the problem. Thinking and exaggerating reality to an extent to get some pleasure is the problem. Instead, what we need is actions, being ready for anything that gonna come.

I also had been giving a lot of time thinking about what I was gonna do and exaggerating it. Now it's just actions, made myself busy with the routines.

If we think a lot, nothing make sense.

The other change I've put into my life is that taking out all these unwanted rules that are stuck in my life, which ate created by myself and society. I think it's bad to live all your life based on a single quote or a rule. Just the accept the idea and live based on reality.

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